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Real and Sincere Apology: A Vital Life Skill

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Written by: Barry Vissell

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We may hurt someone through miscommunication or lack of understanding. Sometimes we hurt someone intentionally, like when we are angry. In either case, we need to apologize in order to...

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My Prescription for Anxiety and Worry

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Written by: Jude Bijou

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We’re a society that likes to worry. Worrying is so prevalent, it almost feels socially acceptable. It's one of the less incapacitating symptoms of fear.

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My Prescription for Anxiety and Worry (Video)

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Written by: Jude Bijou

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We’re a society that likes to worry. Worrying is so prevalent, it almost feels socially acceptable. It's one of the less incapacitating symptoms of fear.

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Can couples therapy bring red and blue Americans together?

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Written by: Jill Kimball-Brown, Futurity

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Workshops that resemble couples therapy left college students less politically polarized, report researchers.

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What's Done Is Done: Be Here Now!

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Written by: Marie T. Russell

Be Here Now! What's Done Is Done!

50 years ago, in 1971, Ram Dass published a book with the title "Be Here Now". It's still good advice. This reminder to be here now was brought to mind as I reflected on the general public's increased interest and acceptance of past-lives.

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Three Misleading Ideas about Past Lives and Life-Between-Lives

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Written by: Joanne DiMaggio

Three Misleading Ideas about Past Lives and Life-Between-Lives

Over the years, I heard clients blame everyone and everything for the issues they were dealing with in their lives, but they seldom considered the possibility that this was what they put into motion in their life-between-lives session.

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Take Yourself On and Do The Work

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Written by: Malcolm Stern

Take Yourself On and Do The Work 

Whether unconscious or conscious, we are all hungry for more depth of connection and more purpose. People often choose therapy as a last resort to heal their discomfort. My group therapy practice is built on the concept of taking yourself on, or, as we call it in my group, “work”.

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Learning to Process Emotions Safely and Successfully

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Written by: Gary Reiss, LCSW

Learning to Process Emotions Safely and Successfully

One of the biggest problems that people bring to therapy is not knowing what to do with a wide range of feelings, including sadness, anger, ecstasy, fear, and depression. Many visits to medical doctors are attempts to deal with feelings unable to be expressed or released. Such feeling problems are quite common.

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Want To See A Therapist But Don't Know Where To Start?

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Written by: Louise Stone

Want To See A Therapist But Don't Know Where To Start?

In such a stressful time, many people are experiencing poorer mental health, and some need additional support.

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The 10 Commandments of Being Kind to Yourself

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Written by: Louise Hay

How to Love Yourself: The 10 Commandments of Loving Yourself

Criticism never changes a thing. Refuse to criticize yourself. Accept yourself exactly as you are. Stop terrorizing yourself with your thoughts. It's a dreadful way to live. Treat yourself as you would someone you really loved...

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Matters Of The Mind: We Use Our Mind In Many Ways

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Written by: Linda Berman

Matters Of The Mind: We Use Our Mind In Many Ways

We use our mind in many ways. We use it when we don't even think about it; it simply takes over and provides us with the support we need for survival. We forget that it's there working and we overlook it as the best tool we have for self-improvement.

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Changing Perceptions and Cleaning Out the Mind's Cubbyholes

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Written by: Dan Joseph

Changing Perceptions and Cleaning Out the Mind's Cubbyholes

Let's imagine our minds as being filled with rows of cubbyholes. Each cubbyhole represents a particular relationship in our lives. Some of these cubbyholes contain largely benevolent thoughts. Others are filled with grievances and other dark thoughts. As I begin to think of those people, I may find a significant amount of resentment or anger stored away...

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Repressing or Expressing Emotions? There's Another Choice!

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Written by: Karla McLaren

Accepting, Honoring, & Channeling Your Emotions

We have learned to repress our emotions, or to blatantly "dump" them on others. Often, our strong emotions make us lash out and blame others for our feelings. There is an alternative, that not only heals you but empowers you.

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Eating Disorders Are About Emotional Pain – Not Food

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Written by: Michele Patterson Ford

Eating Disorders Are About Emotional Pain – Not Food
In her documentary “Miss Americana,” music icon Taylor Swift disclosed her history of eating disorders. Her revelation underscores the fact these disorders do not discriminate.

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What Psychotherapy Can Do For The Climate and Biodiversity Crises

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Written by: Caroline Hickman

What Psychotherapy Can Do For The Climate and Biodiversity Crises
In these extreme circumstances, a bit of depression about the environment could be precisely what we need – it’s the only sane response.

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Stuck in a Pill Bottle and a Limited Book: The Other Problem with Psychiatry and Psychotherapy

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Written by: Robert T. London, M.D.

Stuck in a Pill Bottle and a Limited Book: The Other Problem with Psychiatry and Psychotherapy
Got a problem? Take a pill. Doesn’t work? Try a different pill, or add another pill to what you’re already taking. The visit may be only fifteen or twenty minutes, and the newest term used for this type of care is “medication management.”

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How To Explore and Open To Reclaiming Your Lost Self

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Written by: Dena J. Bower

How To Explore and Open To Reclaiming Your Lost Self
Although 'self-help' information can be readily gleaned, there must be a head-heart, or intellect-feeling connection before one's situation can change. All knowledge learned must be internalized (believed), and processed (discussed, analyzed, emotions explored). Insights must be gained and goals set and attained, in order to resolve unfinished business, heal wounds, and grow.

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How Are You Feeling Right Now? Emotions Are Your Guides To Your Feelings

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Written by: Doreen Virtue

Why Emotions Are Your Guides To Your Feelings
Some people cannot distinguish or name the emotions that they feel. In such cases, it's important to increase the emotional vocabulary and learn how varied feelings can be. An easy way to accomplish this is to use an emotional vocabulary list.

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Getting Real: The Most Direct Path to Freedom and Happiness

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Written by: Susan Campbell, Ph.D.

Getting Real: The Most Direct Path to Wholeness
Honest communication is not only the quickest, most direct path to wholeness, it is also the least expensive. Without spending years in a therapist's office, you can get out of the morass of judgments, generalizations, shoulds, withholdings, assessments, and explanations about why you are the way you are.

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To Be Happy, The Approval Of Others Is Not Needed

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Written by: J. Donald Walters

To Be Happy, The Approval Of Others Is Not Needed
To be sincere with oneself means not to let his happiness depend on the approval of others. In the context of the quest for bliss, opinions simply do not matter. The only important thing is how to deepen that bliss...

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How Can External Change Lead to Internal Change?

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Written by: Eve Bruce M.D.

How Can External Change Lead to Internal Change?By the time my patients pick up the phone to make an appointment with me -- or to call any healer, for that matter -- two very important steps have occurred first. First, they have decided that something is awry in their life, something is not as they want it to be; and second, they have decided to do something about it. They are at a gateway...

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