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Supporting a Friend Through Depression and Trauma

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Written by: Lowri Dowthwaite

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Understanding how to support a friend dealing with depression and trauma can be challenging. This article provides insights into recognizing signs of depression, the importance of open communication, and resources available for support, emphasizing the need for mutual support and professional help.

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Why Won't You Be My Neighbor?

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Written by: Marie T. Russell, InnerSelf.com

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We’re more connected than ever, yet many of us don’t even know who lives next door. Why does that matter?

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How to Create Meaningful Friendships in Your Adult Years

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Written by: Michael Thompson

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Building meaningful friendships in adulthood can be challenging, but it’s essential for mental and emotional wellbeing. This article offers practical strategies to build friendships, including putting yourself in social situations you enjoy, trying new activities, and becoming a master of the follow-up. Learn how scheduling social activities and prioritizing relationships can help you nurture meaningful connections and overcome adult loneliness.

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A Life of Community Prepares Us for the Future

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Written by: Alan Heeks

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In an uncertain future, growing community is essential for resilience. This article explores how collective action, inspired by nature's ecosystems, can strengthen communities. From wild margins to community-supported agriculture, diverse skills, mutual support, and inclusive participation are key to thriving in challenging times. 

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Letter to a Friend: You Are at a Crossroads

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Written by: Pierre Pradervand

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Dear friend; I hold you gently in the quiet of my thought. The stillness tells me clearly that this crisis in your life, which most call a breakdown, is a listening time.

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It Takes a Lot of Alone Time to Start Feeling Lonely

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Written by: Niranjana Rajalakshmi-U. Arizona

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Researchers have analyzed the relationship between loneliness and aloneness—and found that they are two different things that aren’t closely correlated.

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Another Way to Have a Healthy Heart

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Written by: Alexis Blue

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Smooches and snuggles may make us feel warm and fuzzy, but they can also be good medicine, says Kory Floyd.

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The Gift of a Friend

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Written by: Joyce Vissell

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Having a true friend (or several) in your life is a true gift. Having someone who you can call and say, "I am not doing well. I need your love," is a huge blessing

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Friends: Who Will Help You... and Who Will Not?

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Written by: Nanette V. Hucknall

Friends: Who Will Help You... and Who Will Not?

If you are struggling to learn something new and you have people around who are not only unhelpful but downright negative about what you're doing, then you need to really look at each and every one and decide if each is truly a friend...

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To Find Friends, Plant Seeds of Friendship

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Written by: Donald Altman

To Find Friends, Plant Seeds of Friendship

It goes without saying that harming others does not a friendly community make. We can begin to refrain from doing harm while cultivating love and good relations. When we live with this value, we honor all with whom we...

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No, A Hug Isn't COVID-Safe. But If You Have To Do It, Here's What To Keep In Mind

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Written by: Lara Herrero and Elina Panahi

No, A Hug Isn't COVID-Safe. But If You Have To Do It, Here's What To Keep In Mind

Some people who live alone may by now have gone months without touching or hugging another person. While avoiding close contact with others is one of the key measures to prevent virus spread, the irony is we probably need a hug more in 2020 than ever before. So how dangerous is a hug really in the time of COVID?

 

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Envy, A Fierce and Hypocritical Emotion, Can Cause Illness

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Written by: Ohky Simine Forest

Envy, A Fierce and Hypocritical Emotion, Is An Illness In Itself

One of the fiercest and most hypocritical human emotions is envy. When the envy is conscious and sent deliberately, the harm is even more terrible, appearing as a sudden illness in the person's life, with no apparent cause.

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When Having A Difficult Time...

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Written by: Joyce Vissell

When Having a Difficult Time...

Right now, in our country, and perhaps in other countries as well, people are having a challenging time in their lives. It could be easy for a person to feel lost in all of this ongoing challenge. But how can we feel found? 

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Neighborhood-based Friendships Making A Comeback For Kids In The Age Of Coronavirus

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Written by: Julie Wargo Aikins

Neighborhood-based Friendships Making A Comeback For Kids In The Age Of Coronavirus

As the weather has warmed in my Midwestern town, my neighborhood is full of children on bicycles pretending to be riding through the Wild West.

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Becoming an Ally to People of Color

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Written by: Joyce Vissell

Becoming an Ally to People of Color

I grew up in Buffalo, New York and, from the time I was just a little girl, my parents, without even knowing it, started training me to become an ally to people of color. I shall be forever grateful to them. My mother emphasized that all humans are created equal and that all, regardless of skin color, are children of God.

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Love, Friendship, and Coronavirus: Do You Turn Your Back When Someone Offers You A Hand, A Kiss Or A Hug?

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Written by: Brian Labus

Love, Friendship, and Coronavirus: Do You Turn Your Back When Someone Offers You A Hand, A Kiss Or A Hug?
We are exposed to numerous viruses from our day-to-day interactions with other people all the time. However, our risk of being infected by a simple greeting usually isn’t in the forefront of our minds.

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How To Help Someone You Think Might Be At Risk Of Domestic Abuse

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Written by: Alison Gregory

How To Help Someone You Think Might Be At Risk Of Domestic Abuse

Your best friend tells you she’s scared of her partner. You notice bruises on your colleague’s arm.

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Galentine's Day Has Become A Thing – Why Hasn't Malentine's Day?

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Written by: Deana Rohlinger

Galentine's Day Has Become A Thing – Why Hasn't Malentine's Day?

Men seem more hesitant about both making friends and celebrating their friendships. On Feb. 13, women will celebrate Galentine’s Day, a holiday trumpeting the joys of female friendships.

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The Company You Keep: Learning To Associate Selectively

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Written by: Dr. Paul Napper, Psy.D. and Dr. Anthony Rao, Ph.D.

The Company You Keep: Learning To Associate Selectively
Human beings are social animals—we all need some degree of interaction with other humans for basic survival as well as psychological health. Spending time with empathetic, optimistic, open-minded people and weeding out those who have the opposite qualities will boost your mood, elevate your motivation, and improve your health.

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Why Loneliness Is A Social Cancer

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Written by: Alex Haslam, et al

Why Loneliness Is A Social Cancer
One question the ABC’s promotional material focused on was “Are you lonely?”

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Making Your Heart A Safe Place

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Written by: Joyce Vissell

Making Your Heart a Safe Place
One of my favorite quotes is, "If you have room in your heart for one enemy, your heart is an unsafe place for a friend." I do not know who originally spoke or wrote that statement, but I do know it contains a volume of wisdom.

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