Happiness & Success
Achieving Happiness Through Acceptance of Life
The quest for happiness often leads to frustration, as many fail to realize that the...
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- Written by: Cyndi Dale and Andrew Wald
In our lives -- and in relationships -- we create personal boundaries to define the space we call our own. We set boundaries and say “no” with our words, with our behavior and actions. Boundaries may sound negative, but in reality, they are very important and help to define our personal identities.
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- Written by: Dr. Lisa Love
Over the years, I have come to understand that much of what people identify as love is nothing of the sort. It is codependency, lust, neediness, addiction, and the ego's constant desire for attention. Sadly, the overwhelming majority of television shows, movies, and music really reflects a spiritual sickness...
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- Written by: Lisa McCourt
One of the qualities Buddhists strive for on the path to enlightenment is called “sameness of being.” It means being exactly who you authentically are, no matter who you are interacting with. To be your most authentic self, you must get over your habits of worrying about....
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- Written by: Shakti Gawain
If we learn to see our relationships as the wonderfully accurate mirrors they are, revealing to us where we need to go with our own inner process, we can see much about ourselves that we would otherwise have a great deal of difficulty learning.
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- Written by: Renée Peterson Trudeau
Assess how you currently navigate challenges: Do you immediately isolate, put on your armor, grab your sword, and head out into the forest to slay the dragon alone? Or do you enlist the help and strategic counsel of other knights and soothsayers who...
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- Written by: Jared Wadley, University of Michigan
Stress isn’t good for you, but it’s not good for your spouse, either. For older married couples, one spouse’s long-term stress can cause the other’s weight gain.
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- Written by: Denis Burnham, Western Sydney University
People often tell new parents to avoid sing-song “baby talk” with their new addition to the family because it will slow the child’s language development.
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- Written by: Osho
Sadness can become a very enriching experience. You have to work on it. It is easy to escape from your sadness — and all relationships ordinarily are escapes; one simply goes on avoiding it. And it is always there underneath... the current continues...
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- Written by: Katherine Gombay, McGill University
Younger children have a binary take on truth and lies, whereas older children take intent and outcomes more into consideration, a new study suggests.
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- Written by: Olivia Remes, University of Cambridge
Does anxiety keep getting in the way of you making connections with the people you’d like to spend more time with? Maybe you’ve just met someone, but are worried that your anxiety will ruin it all.
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- Written by: Christopher Krupenye, Max Planck Institute
One of the things that defines humans most is our ability to read others’ minds – that is, to make inferences about what others are thinking. To build or maintain relationships, we offer gifts and services – not arbitrarily, but with the recipient’s desires in mind.
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- Written by: Evita March, Federation University Australia
Almost half the population of the planet now has access to the internet, with about one in three of those people regularly active on social media.
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- Written by: Susan Anderson
People in the throes of a breakup universally express the fear that they will never love again. I was afraid of this myself for a few months after losing my life partner. In the midst of the despair and hopelessness, we believe that losing our loved one means losing the possibility for love and connection forever.
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- Written by: Shelly Leachman, University of California, Santa Barbara
Children should learn about navigating their emotions from an early age, says sociologist Thomas Scheff.
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- Written by: Tom Sturges
If fear of punishment is a motivation that keeps your daughter from calling you when she needs you the most, you may need to examine your emergency procedures. The chance of real harm befalling her, out there alone in the world, simply because she is afraid to tell you...
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- Written by: Joel Rachelson, Ph.D.
Unfortunately, being single today is not easy. One, it is difficult, for a number of reasons, to be at peace with being single. Two, it is very difficult to meet other singles, in most any environment much less a healthy environment or process.
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- Written by: Barbara Berger
Did you ever wonder what characterizes a psychologically mature person? I’ve thought about it a lot – both on my own personal inner journey of awakening and because I work as a therapist and coach on a daily basis, helping other people with their issues. Here are some of the things I’ve discovered.
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- Written by: Stephen Sireci, University of Massachusetts Amherst
Now that the first month of school is over, parents can get ready for the next milestone of the school year – they will soon get reports of the state tests their children took last year.
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- Written by: Anne Miller, YES! Magazine
Right now I’m not worried about the glass ceiling. For now, with a young child, I’m embracing freelance work.
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- Written by: Paige Gray, Fort Lewis College
In the same way that actual grit accumulates in the cracks and crevices of the landscape, our cultural insistence on possessing grit has gradually come to the forefront of child-rearing and education reform.
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- Written by: Teresa Belton, University of East Anglia
From books, arts and sports classes to iPads and television, many parents do everything in their power to entertain and educate their children. But what would happen if children were just left to be bored from time to time? How would it affect their development?
